Step by Step guide: How to start a blog that you can earn a living from

This is the ultimate step by step guide to starting a blog that will continue to earn you money for years to come. I teach you how to get started!

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Now I’ve been blogging for a while (four years now), I get asked frequently how I make money from it, and how I earn my living from it, so I thought it was about time I wrote a guide on how to start a blog that you can make money from and earn a living. It’s not been an easy process and it has taken work, but I’m now at the stage where I now have more financial freedom, and I’ve been able to leave my permanent contract and work more flexibly when it suits me, thanks to blogging. I really enjoy the whole process: writing, creating images, doing the photography, networking and promoting, and of course social media! It’s given me loads of opportunities that I wouldn’t normally have had plus lots of nice things – they aren’t free, I write a review in return which takes time and effort, I like to do a good job for the client, especially if I’ve enjoyed using the product. If I haven’t or thought there were negatives which is rare, I’ll point out to the brand or PR what I think and will say so in my review. I also make money from sponsored campaigns with brands and PRs, and guest posts.

It’s also given me a platform to educate in my area of expertise – Midwifery, breastfeeding and early days parenting. One of my most popular posts is How to settle your newborn in their own bed at night, and midwives and doulas all liked my post You know you’re an on call Midwife when… On a more personal note, I’ve managed to write a book which tells my story of love and loss in The Gift I couldn’t keep, which is something I’ve always wanted to do. I discovered I love writing reviews, and since I started doing them, they’ve always been well received.

So if you’re thinking of starting your own blog which you intend to make money from, or monetise as it’s called in the business world, here is my step by step guide.

  1. Find your perfect blog name and register the domain. There are plenty of free platforms to blog if you just want to hobby blog (e.g, blogspot), but if you’re serious about it becoming your business then you need to register a domain name. I started with a free platform on wordpress then bought a domain name through them, then went self hosted. I have both the and the .com for each of my websites so I have secured the domains, the ones are parked domains, so if people type in they immediately get redirected to The cost varies depending on what you choose and who you go with, but it shouldn’t be more than £15-20 per year. The .com and domains are most popular and get taken first, there are plenty of other endings you can have but it’s always beneficial to have the .com and I also have two more through TSOhost.
  2. Choose a web host. I host all three of my websites (this one, parentbloggingsecrets and through TSOHost, a UK company with really good support and they’re very reasonably priced. I pay £5.99 a month which covers all my sites. When you start you probably only need the £14.99 a year plan. They have different options depending on the traffic you get, with the option to upgrade if you need it.  I am no web designer or technical guru, TSO talked me through it! You can get 10% off any hosting package through my discount quoting MLife10 when you check out. I originally started blogging on the wordpress free platform as I had no idea what would happen with it, if I’d known I’d have gone the ‘self hosted’ route from the start, because it gives you so much more freedom, plus you get taken more seriously by brands. If they see your blog with at the end they won’t choose you – not always, I still got some review opportunities when I wrote on the free platform, but no sponsored posts, plus when I changed over it was like looking at HD after watching analogue! I wrote about the transfer process from to self hosted wordpress here, you’ll save yourself a hassle if you start off self hosted. For complete beginners I would recommend starting with free web hosting.


3. Pick a theme – once you’ve set up your website you’ll need a theme. There are loads of free themes on wordpress to choose from to start, they’ll often lure you in with a flash preview but then you find to get that look you need to upgrade. Have a play around and see what you like best. They’re relatively easy to customise and get the look you want. When you’re self hosted you can pay to use an external theme, I’ve had a couple of different ones, my current one is Elle Blog theme by City House Design form Creative Market. It’s very reasonably priced and simple to install. The owner is always happy to be contacted too. Creative market have other themes too on offer. There are also loads of pretty themes on offer from Etsy, choose wisely if you’re paying, some of them require adding plugins and a knowledge of coding, something I have minimal knowledge on. If a theme needs a genesis framework, you need to buy that separately.

4. Find your ‘niche’ – this gets bandied about a lot in the blogging world, the narrower the niche the better the audience and the more targeted the ads, therefore you get a higher conversion rate. It’s better to have 1000 targeted readers than 5000 that don’t engage. I used to be more broad but now I stick to parenting and pregnancy, alongside blogging tips.

5. Get writing! Creating great, shareable content is what gets you noticed. You may also want to pitch to brands if there are any particular ones you want to work with.

6. Research. I spend lots of time reading blogging tips, mostly on Pinterest, or from fellow bloggers, there’s a wealth of posts out there. The blogging community is super friendly and we’re always sharing tips and passing on information. Join my parent blogger Facebook group here.

7. Join the community. There are a number of Facebook groups which have been invaluable to me, I’ve ‘met’ lots of lovely people who I now count as friends. They also often share opportunities for paid posts and reviews, plus PRs and brands often recruit from them. My favourites are UK Bloggers, UK Parent Bloggers, and UK Blogger Opportunities There are also groups specifically to reciprocally share your posts, tweets etc. which can give you a boost. Talk to other bloggers, share each other’s content, guest post on other’s sites. Comment on other people’s blogs, get noticed. Participate in link ups.

8. Social media. Sign up for social media accounts in at least the big 4 – Facebook, Twitter, Instagram and Pinterest with your blog name and get networking and sharing. Don’t forget LinkedIn, if you’re already on it, add that you’re a blogger and share your relevant content.

9. Join blogging directories and sites relevant to your niche. I’m on mumsnet, netmums, pickablogger, tots100, parentblogger rise, activate by bloglovin, sheknows and probably some more I can’t remember! Tots100 also have Food, travel and homes and interiors sections and are an important ranking tool for some brands. Since I started I’ve seen my rank climb from 1000 something to start with to now 248, it fluctuates, and I’ve working with them on campaigns such as this one for Supernanny.

10. Sign up to affiliate marketing programmes. Almost everything can be linked to as an affiliate,  it means if someone clicks on your link or an ad on your site and buys something,  you get a commission and the buyer doesn’t pay any extra. Effectively the brand pays you for driving the sale. I use AWIN, which has loads of well known brands, eBay partner network, and Amazon associates. Affiliate window charges £5 but that goes back on your balance and you get a payout when you reach the payment threshold, I’ve already made mine back.

11. Sign up for Google adsense. It’s not the only form of adverts but it’s easy to install and they pay per view as well as per click and the ads are targeted, which is where a niche blog comes to its own,  the more targeted your audience is, the more targeted your ads become therefore visitors are more likely to click on your ads and maybe buy. You choose where and how many you display.  They have a £60 minimum payout, which I’ve had several times now.

Here’s what the wordpress interface looks like, it’s basically a bit like a word document.

This is the ultimate step by step guide to starting a blog that will continue to earn you money for years to come. I teach you how to get started!

This is the ultimate step by step guide to starting a blog that will continue to earn you money for years to come. I teach you how to get started!

This is the ultimate step by step guide to starting a blog that will continue to earn you money for years to come. I teach you how to get started!

I hope you found this post useful if you’re looking to set up a blog. I’d love to know how you get on, and please let me know if you have any questions. When I was starting out I got help from more experienced bloggers which I was so grateful for. If you have a blog and you’d like to take the next step and really learn all the secrets, sign up for my course Blogging Secrets. For only £75, you’ll get all the shortcuts and insider tips to get you earning a regular income from your blog.

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  • Reply Jo from Organised Jo

    Your post has come at such a great time for me! I’ve been blogging for about 3 months now, self hosted, & have been thinking about how to monetise it. Great tips that I’m going to follow up on. Thank you.

    May 15, 2016 at 10:11 pm
    • Reply Midwife and Life

      You’re welcome, so glad it helps x

      May 15, 2016 at 10:13 pm
  • Reply Jenni - Odd Socks and Lollipops

    These are great tips – I need to have a look in to some of the affiliate schemes and such. I love TSO they are my host and they are amazing – I have had a couple of issues and they have sorted them so quickly. I am so glad I made the jump to selfhosted sooner rather than later.

    May 16, 2016 at 8:31 am
  • Reply Sarah Ella (Mumx3x)

    I don’t make any money from my blog at the moment but I’d still like to go self hosted. I have learned SO much from Facebook groups, too! The blogging community is ever so friendly and helpful 🙂
    This post is really helpful! Thank you for sharing. xx

    May 16, 2016 at 8:48 am
  • Reply Rhian Westbury

    Great tips but I think unless you’re like a parenting blogger, or covering something really specific it’s so hard to find your niche. I have no idea what mine is x

    May 16, 2016 at 9:56 am
  • Reply Fashion and Style Police

    This is a very informative post. I am sure loads of new bloggers will find it helpful.

    May 16, 2016 at 9:58 am
  • Reply Ana De- Jesus

    Do you see any money come from your skimlinks at all? At the moment I earn money through sponsored posts but have been chosen to be part of an exclusive monetization club called Reward Style who work with Like To Know It!

    May 16, 2016 at 8:27 pm
    • Reply Midwife and Life

      I got rejected from skimlinks!

      May 16, 2016 at 8:34 pm
  • Reply The London Mum

    Fab post! I have a lot of friends that want to start blogs and come to me for advice, my response is always a bit higgledy piggledy because I remember things I’ve forgotten to say earlier- this is a much more useful tool that I can send to them to clear it all up!

    May 16, 2016 at 10:25 pm
    • Reply Midwife and Life

      That’s great!

      May 17, 2016 at 5:02 am
  • Reply Deynn

    Before starting any kinds of blogs you must set first your objectives and what platform will you use? One thing about having a blog and if you have a high traffic and great domain authority you will accept sponsored guest post or advertisement in this way you can share your idea while earning.

    May 17, 2016 at 3:31 am
  • Reply Anosa

    How I wish there was a post like this when I started, actually I am sure there was something just didn’t think to google that when I started lol. Lovely and detailed, I will send to my sister who just started blogging
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    May 17, 2016 at 5:17 am
    • Reply Midwife and Life

      Thank you, I read similar ones when I started but didn’t always pay attention!

      May 17, 2016 at 5:26 am
  • Reply Harriet from Toby & Roo

    Ahh this is a really informative post Jenny! Great tips about the affiliate marketing 🙂
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    May 17, 2016 at 11:31 am
    • Reply Midwife and Life

      Thanks Harriet x

      May 17, 2016 at 1:45 pm
  • Reply Working mum Blog

    Some great tips here. I have bookmarked as lots on here that I am yet to try. Well done on achieving all this in one year!

    May 17, 2016 at 11:40 pm
    • Reply Midwife and Life

      Thanks, it’s taken a lot of effort!

      May 18, 2016 at 6:23 am
  • Reply Riju Debnath

    It will be really a great article for those beginners who wanted to start their blog.
    I think niche selection is a crucial point that every one should investigate carefully before start.
    Any way great article.
    Thanks for sharing.

    June 13, 2016 at 4:32 pm
    • Reply Midwife and Life

      Yes, I agree, thanks for reading.

      June 13, 2016 at 4:50 pm
  • Reply Tasha - mummy & moose

    Thanks Jenny, great post x

    January 2, 2017 at 8:16 pm
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