Stress, Success and SLEEP! How to maximise your sleep quality

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Look, I know the real answers to getting a good night’s sleep:

  • Buy the property next door to you, or add an extra wing to yours
  • Install a night nanny, preferably Mary Poppins, to live with the children in said wing from 7pm until morning
  • Get a ‘brain switch off button’ and press off at desired time
  • Put a urinary catheter in overnight
  • Separate bedrooms for you and your husband
  • A pillow that gently massages your neck and shoulders, and strokes your hair
  • Temperature controlled responsive bedding
  • A mattress that’s super comfortable

OK, so let’s get realistic, we’re not going to get all the things on this list, but we can try our best to ensure the sleep we do get is of good quality. The years where we have to share with a wriggly, heat radiating baby that wakes you up every hour are short, that racing brain we have makes sure we don’t forget anything and live our best life, so there are some sacrifices to be made. Some of the most successful and ambitious people only sleep 3-4 hours a night and claim to not need any more. Our bedroom needs to be a safe haven, a place of comfort and relaxation, to unwind and recharge.

The relationship between stress and success

Many adults will struggle with sleep throughout their lifetime. Whether it’s a stressful day, a crying baby, or a bad back; a bad nights sleep can lead to a bad day ahead. With May being mental health awareness month, getting in enough sleep has never been so important with a lack of sleep often leading to physical and mental health problems. The two are interlinked. I believe my postnatal depression in the past was partly due to lack of sleep and my feeling that I would never again sleep well. I remember one night where she had taken the bottle and was sleeping longer but I lay awake thinking she would wake any minute, and also calculating how much sleep I would get if I fell asleep now… probably slept worse than if she had woken 5 times! If I’d managed to relax it would have been easier, I felt so alone. I have found a happy medium now thankfully! I do like to get to bed relatively early and I hate getting up before I feel ready (that hasn’t changed since I was a child, I’ve never been a morning person). If I find myself awake in the night unable to drop off, I avoid my phone, get comfy and play a tried and tested story in my head which usually works to help me drop back off. I see it as my own personal quiet time.

Stress is a natural driver in our body which we use to thrive on and push ourselves in life, but sometimes it goes into overdrive and affects our well-being. It is possible to learn to cope with stress and make it work for us. Do you ever think about your personal relationship with stress? How do you deal with it’s effects? We all cope differently. Some people use it to drive their daily life and career, and work better under pressure, others do their best to avoid stress at all costs. Either way, we will all most likely experience the effect of stress on our sleep pattern and mental well being when things become a bit much. Have you ever been so tired yet you had trouble getting off to sleep? Laid awake after the night feed struggling to get back to sleep? Sleep plays a major role in being able to cope in a stressful situation.

Here’s a few sleep tips, or relaxation tips that have helped me in the past and present to unwind and sleep:

  • Set the environment for sleep – fresh sheets, clean pyjamas, low lighting, comfy pillows, good quality mattress
  • Use a night time routine that’s the same each night
  • Practice a wind down time
  • Avoid caffeine after 3pm
  • Turn off the phone, tablet etc. an hour before bed
  • Keep a notepad and pen beside the bed so you can write down any burning issues troubling you or to do lists
  • Keep a drink of water by the bed
  • Invest in blackout curtains or blinds
  • Keep the bedroom clutter free
  • Use guided meditation

If you’re in need of a new mattress or pillow, which definitely helps getting quality sleep, TEMPUR® offer a range of products such as mattresses, pillows and beds, all made from NASA’s unique memory foam to help you improve your sleep. Tempur will be making a donation to The Mental Health Foundation Charity for every mattress sold in May. £10 from the sale of every Tempur mattress purchased online or through a Tempur retail outlet or Tempur Store in May 2018 will be paid to The Mental Health Foundation, a registered charity, with registered numbers 801130 (in England) and 039714 (in Scotland). This post is in collaboration with Tempur, all opinions are my own.


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  • Reply Susan Dark

    Pillow was the break point for me.

    I have been suffering not to relax even after 8 hours sleep. I have stopped to drink caffeine 2 hours before going to bed. I changed my pillow with a solid one. Then, bingo!

    Each body has different needs to relax before sleeping. Each person has to be discover his/her needs with trying points you written down in your article.s

    May 29, 2018 at 3:34 pm
  • Reply Susan Darkd

    I am a coffee addict. This addiction causes me not to sleep easily and rest well after 8 hours sleep. My doctor advice me to reduce caffeine consumption. Then i have been stopped to drink coffee after 5pm. It makes me depressive at the beginning. But then, i used to. After 3 weeks, i get up well rested in the mornings.

    May 29, 2018 at 3:43 pm
  • Reply Matt

    Great article as always!
    I just learned the 4 7 8 breathing method and it has helped me to relax & sleep better!
    Exhale completely through your mouth, making a whoosh sound. Close your mouth and inhale quietly through your nose to a mental count of four. Hold your breath for a count of seven. Exhale completely through your mouth, making a whoosh sound to a count of eight.
    Hope it’s useful for your readers.
    Keep up the great work!

    June 22, 2018 at 2:41 am
  • Reply luxury bedding

    Bedding items always plays important role in good sleep. Always choose high quality products.

    July 21, 2018 at 8:23 am
  • Reply Emma Kaufman

    Love your work. Quality sleep is important in today’s stressful life. Now a day people us sleep accessories like mattress, pillow, mask to improve sleep quality and it’ work. Thanks for the amazing guide.

    August 17, 2018 at 4:41 pm
  • Reply david

    Love these tips! Sleep is so important, and finding what works for you is so key !

    September 3, 2018 at 1:56 pm
  • Reply Md Dalour

    tips for sleeping is amazing.
    It’s most probably help to sleep.
    Actually, stress makes difference for sleep.
    And sleep play a factor for success.
    You can succeed with good sleep.
    Follow the steps here described.

    February 15, 2019 at 5:44 am
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