Stop Putting Yourself Second!

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When you’re a mum, it can often feel as though the best thing you can do is to put your life on hold for the sake of everyone else. After all, that’s what’s expected of most mum’s, right? Put yourself last so that you can make sure that everyone else is as happy as possible? Of course! Well, the truth is that doing that is just going to leave you feeling miserable. Women, especially mums, might be expected to put themselves last at every turn but the truth is that if you want to live your life properly, you need to start thinking about your own needs. With that in mind, it’s worth thinking about the kinds of things that make you happy and how it is that you can go about making those things happen.

Find a career you love

If there’s one thing that a lot of people would agree on as the least satisfying part of their lives, it’s their job. The truth is that many of us just end up settling for something that will allow us to make ends meet. However, if you really to get more out of your life then why not try and find something that makes you happy. Take a chance and put in the effort required to find your dream career. Whether that involves working your way up through the ranks or doing an online MBA to get the expertise you need to start your own business, it’s always possible to find a career that you actually love. If you enjoy what you’re doing, it’s going to feel that much less like work.

Take some time for yourself

If there’s one thing that a lot of mums really struggle with it’s the idea that they are allowed to take time for themselves. Most of us are taught to think that doing something like that is selfish and we should be dedicating all of our time to making sure that everyone else gets the chance to relax and enjoy themselves. Well, I’m here to say that there is absolutely nothing wrong with the need to step back and take some time for yourself. Have your partner take the kids out for a while and just relax for a bit. Trust me, you’ve earned it.

Ask for help

Life is hard. That’s something that just about all of us can agree on. However, if you’re trying to do everything yourself without any help from other people then you’re just making it that much harder on yourself. There’s nothing wrong with needing to reach out to the people in your life for support. Whether that’s friends, family, or even a qualified professional. We all need help from time to time and you should feel comfortable asking for it.

Of course, there’s nothing wrong with wanting to put your family first. After all, part of being an adult is learning when to put other people before you. But the truth is that doing that all of the time is just going to leave you feeling resentful. Remember, if you’re looking out for everyone else, then who’s going to be looking out for you? It’s okay to focus on yourself and what you want every once in a while.

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August 14, 2018
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