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In the past year, many of us found out just how important our friendships are. With all of the uncertainty and stress in our lives, we all leaned pretty heavily on our communities, and they did the same to us. Especially as a mom, the other moms in our lives were essential to how we all made it through. How can you show your appreciation for that kind of support? While you might not be able to say everything you’re feeling, a thoughtful gift for a friend can go a long way towards showing that you care. Read on for our suggestions of small gifts to let them know you’re grateful for their support.
Deliver dinner to a new mom
As a new mother, it’s just a given that you are a little bit frazzled and all over the place. This is especially true for your friends who became new moms during the pandemic! If you have friends in this beautiful but stressful phase of motherhood, one way to be thoughtful is to drop off a meal. This gift functions two fold: Not only are you giving them a delicious meal, you’re also giving them a much needed break from the nightly routine of cooking. Whether you prepare a home-cooked meal or send take out their way, you can rest assured that the gesture will be much appreciated.
Gift a quality caffeine buzz
For friends on the go, coffee is sure to be a staple of their day. Surprise your coffee-loving friends with an artisan blend of their favorite coffee, preferably ground and ready to go for their day. I don’t know about you, but I love the smell of freshly roasted coffee beans. It reminds me of a cozy home on a rainy day. Of course, many pregnant and nursing mothers avoid caffeine, and it would be rude to tempt them! Instead, send them something cute and personal that they can use later, like a coffee mug with picture of their baby shower or another memorable moment. When they finally jump back on the coffee bandwagon, they’ll be thinking fondly of you!
Send a self-care package
Every blog you read (including ours) tells moms over and over again to de-stress, relax, and make time for themselves. And for good reason! In large amounts, stress can start to take a serious toll on your body and mind. But often, relaxing is easier said than done. When your friends are starting to seem overwhelmed, help them out by sending them a self-care package. This could be a DIY spa kit, including candles and scented bath salts, or an “adult” relaxation kit, complete with rosé and chocolate.
You know your friends and what they would appreciate best, so be creative and have a little fun! I have a friend who loves all things y2k so I go to the y2k store where I can get y2k fashion online for the best baby tees y2k has to offer. I know one friend who would really like an Apple watch, it’s all she can talk about these days. I know they can do pretty much everything a phone can plus keep an eye on your health and fitness too. There are also so many different styles and colours to get to suit the wearer, plus you can get a custom or spare Apple watch strap so it really is down to the individual.
Love on the little ones
Our final suggestion is still thoughtful, but it’s not actually a gift for your friend, per se. Instead, give your friends the gift of free time by getting their little ones something new and exciting. Every parent knows how difficult it can be to complete household tasks with a gaggle of bored kids hanging around. Giving them a new interactive game or a cool toy can help to entertain the little ones while your friend gets some much-needed chores done or simply takes a moment for herself. Trust us, the kids will love you and your friend will be grateful for you too.
Your fellow moms are essential for your wellbeing, especially if you’re an expecting or new mother. With a good group of friends, you can reduce your stress and actually start to enjoy this wonderful time in your life. With any of these thoughtful gifts, you can show your closest friends exactly how much they mean to you.
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